Understanding Silicon Valley: A Discovery Operating System

This article was published as part of the book “America: A Singapore Perspective” edited by Tommy Koh and Daljit Singh. The full book can be purchased here: https://www.amazon.com/America-Singapore-Perspective-29-Writers-ebook/dp/B09MTR2CDK

Koh Shiyan and Karen Tay 

Chances are, you can access this article from a smartphone right now: a device that was unimaginable for most just twenty years ago. In milliseconds, it serves up real-time directions, messages, music, entertainment and distraction for six billion people around the globe. 

It would not be an exaggeration to credit the major technological innovations behind your smartphone — silicon chips, 5G, cloud computing, and iOS and Android operating systems — to Silicon Valley, the global hub for technology and entrepreneurship over the past few decades. 

Covering less than 130 square kilometres in the San Francisco Bay Area, it accounts for more than a fifth of all venture capital dollars invested in the United States, and is home to many of the world’s largest high-tech corporations, thousands of start-ups and three of the top five American companies by market capitalisation. 

DISCOVERY AND EFFICIENCY 

As Silicon Valley’s long-time residents, we are often asked what makes it work. On the surface, its biggest asset is like Singapore’s: talent. It thrives on a virtuous cycle of attracting the best from across the globe. 

However, its history and operating principles are vastly different from Singapore’s. 

Singapore’s initial operating system was designed for efficiency. As a survival imperative post-World War II, Singapore pursued a successful path of industrial efficiency, producing goods and services at competitive costs and becoming a trade hub for global business and talent. Educational paths were efficiently mapped out for different roles, sorting students into tracks which took them to jobs and sectors to support the economy. This relentless drive for efficiency has led Singapore “from Third World to First” within a generation. 

An operating system based on efficiency makes complete sense when you know what you are trying to optimise, such as reducing costs or educating labour for pre-planned industries; it is less relevant when you do not have a sense of the objective function you are trying to optimise. Efficiency works well when you are playing catch-up, but is less helpful when you are trying to chart new frontiers. 

In contrast, Silicon Valley’s operating system is designed for discovery. By definition, discovery means we do not know the answer. It acknowledges that predicting game-changing success is near impossible. Therefore, a system that optimises for discovery accepts that there will be failures and near-misses far more often than successes. The high rate of failure is a feature rather than a bug of the system. Silicon Valley’s discovery operating system can best be understood through four paradigms. 

Take Big Swings 

If the most likely outcome is failure, it makes sense to bear the high risk of entrepreneurship only when the pay-off is exceptionally large. As it turns out, the biggest pay-offs come when you are imagining what the world should be and innovating towards that ideal, rather than aiming for incremental change. 

In Silicon Valley, entrepreneurs take only big swings towards the ideal. An example is Netflix. In the 1990s when most people were renting DVDs and only a small proportion had home internet access, an incremental thinker would have focused on optimising the supply of DVDs across brick-and-mortar rental stores. 

Yet Netflix’s CEO, Reed Hastings, dreamed of creating a “global entertainment distribution service” on the internet. Based on advances in computing and internet technology, he knew that streaming on-demand video would be possible in the future. He did not know when, but that did not stop him from building towards that future, sending out DVDs in the mail and collecting data to build a catalogue and a recommendation engine which is now Netflix’s key competitive advantage. 

Similarly, lofty goals to organise all of the world’s information, connect everyone regardless of geography, and have anything you want delivered in a day fuelled Google, Facebook and Amazon. 

Don’t Punish Failure Prematurely 

Given that failure is the median outcome, a discovery operating system does not punish failure prematurely. 

Trying and failing are seen as valuable learning experiences rather than a judgement on someone’s competency. Tech giants view people with start-up experience (even if said start-up failed) as valuable employees because they have experience taking initiative and working with limited resources. Contrast this to the attitude of most Asian employers, who prefer candidates with credentials and experiences at other large companies. 

Investors also support experimentation by making early bets with limited information rather than waiting for greater certainty of success: early-stage funds, angel investors and early employees throw money and time behind companies that have rudimentary initial products, few if any customers, or founders who have previously failed. If a start-up shows strong market signals, additional funds are given. If not, companies are allowed to die with no further cost to the founder. 

This is not considered waste, but part of the game. In fact, in the Venture Capital asset class, just one in a hundred investments is expected to provide the lion’s share of returns. 

Work Fuelled by Curiosity and Play 

We use the word, “play”, deliberately because the idea of work as play is still relatively uncommon in much of the world. Technologists spend nights and weekends playing with immature new technologies, incubating and experimenting without immediate commercial intent. Talent leaves comfortable successful unicorns to help build and fund new ones: the “PayPal mafia” of the early 2000s were instrumental in founding a host of new companies such as YouTube, Yelp, Reddit, LinkedIn, Affirm and Palantir. 

We remember meeting a Singaporean in the Valley who was confused by why his colleagues invited him to hack on weekends; to him, his skills were a means to a high-paying job — when he was off the clock, he had little interest in exploring new technologies. In contrast, much of Silicon Valley’s ethos is fuelled by intrinsic motivation: the point of winning the game (for example, taking a company to an Initial Public Offering or an acquisition) is not to retire but to play the game again. 

High Rate of Idea Exchange through Networks 

Another hallmark of the discovery operating system is its high rate of idea exchange through dense, intersecting networks. 

There is a permeable membrane between industry and academia. Professors from Stanford University; University of California, Berkeley; and San Jose State University often take time out from their tenured roles to start businesses, invest in their students and consult for startups. Cutting-edge researchers thus have a consistent pulse on commercial problems, and the system is flexible enough to accommodate their varied interests. 

High housing prices in the Bay Area have led to most single people needing to find roommates. This boosts the velocity of idea exchange, as newcomers to the area meet others in the field via their housing. Roommate barbecues lead to informal gatherings that help newcomers plug directly into the ecosystem; ideas, opportunities, strategies and challenges are traded freely. 

The density of experienced operators means that even as newcomers enter the ecosystem, they can easily tap on the experience of others to get up to speed quickly. This prevents the reinvention of the wheel, and creates a much higher baseline of entrepreneurship skills and know- how than in less developed ecosystems. 

REFLECTIONS FOR SINGAPORE

Given its tremendous success, it is easy to overhype Silicon Valley as an example. As long-term residents, we have witnessed the darker sides of a system dominated by high-tech entrepreneurship. It is a high-cost, competitive region where only a small proportion make it very big. Even dual-income tech workers leave the area for lower-cost American cities because they cannot sustain the lifestyle, especially after having children. The technology sector is also known for its ageism. 

Singapore cannot afford the full extent of these downsides. Silicon Valley is a sliver of America, while Singapore is a country which must cater to a diversity of skills and aspirations, life stages and needs. 

Risky high-tech entrepreneurship can be only one part of Singapore’s economy. We find, however, that being in one of the richest countries on earth has not released enough Singaporeans to focus more on discovery. Most still aspire to land high-paying corporate jobs so that they can retire early. 


To build the next generation of global tech businesses and get to the top of the value chain, Singapore must move towards the discovery operating system. It is not just about direct incentives for innovation, which Singapore does very well, but reviewing practices which were based on the efficiency operating system. 

What might it look like to introduce more flexibility at the margins, allowing space for discoveries? 

For example, Singapore’s criteria for immigration are tied to applicants’ track records (education, qualifications) and how they fit into desired industries. Predicting success based on existing pathways makes sense for the majority, but what if a small proportion of visas each year are assigned by lottery, à la America’s Diversity Immigrant Visa Program? Successful cases can be tracked to identify new factors which predict success and contribution. 

While government subsidies for flats enable widespread home ownership at a young age, taking on large mortgages can unintentionally disincentivise entrepreneurship. Could young people be granted flexibility in housing benefits so that taking big swings in their twenties becomes the norm? 

In an innovation economy, entire occupations come and go in a decade. Overly focusing on examinations gives students a false sense of linearity about life. How might Singapore help students see that school is less of a vocational exercise than an opportunity to try many new paths in a low-risk environment? 

Singapore could also work on boosting the rate of idea exchange through tight networks. This is not just a matter of events and programming. What undergirds Silicon Valley’s networks is a sense of respect for individual contributors — treating them not according to their position in a company hierarchy or their previous educational qualifications but as individuals holding tremendous drive and potential. People also invest in the future of relationships, expecting repeated interactions over time. As one of our mutual friends said: “In Silicon Valley, you have no idea who will be rich or important in five years, so you should just try to be helpful and nice. The newest member on your team may end up founding a unicorn and hiring you later!”

CONCLUSION 

The global tides bode well for Singapore. A new global technology order is emerging where Silicon Valley is no longer singular in its ability to generate innovation and attract talent: 

  • Technological leaps in cloud computing and software operating systems have made it easier for creators to build technology products regardless of location — wherever talent can be found. Sea Group, which was founded in Singapore, has produced hit video games and e-commerce services tailored for mobile-first emerging economies, outperforming its US-based competitors such as Amazon in Latin American and Asian markets.

  • Big moves by the US, China and India to limit dependence on one another’s technology, coupled with a tighter immigration posture in America since 2016, mean that technology and talent will be less concentrated in one location.

  • The COVID-19 pandemic has accelerated the push toward decentralisation. Companies have announced permanent remote working options, talents have dispersed from Silicon Valley to lower-cost areas, and it remains to be seen whether they will return.

Already, we have witnessed an encouraging shift in aspirations among Singaporean technologists in Silicon Valley. While the older generation moved to Silicon Valley with no plans of moving home, the younger technologists largely see their time abroad as temporary: a chance to learn from global tech giants before moving back to build their own unicorns. 

Yet, for aspiring technology entrepreneurs to succeed in building a new generation of global technology companies from Singapore, critical mass is sorely needed: in technology talent, risk-appetite and entrepreneurial ambition. 

We argue that Singapore must make a leap towards a discovery operating system at this critical juncture. In turn, these local heroes and success stories will shape our country’s economy, work culture and ethos for the next few decades. They will be the proof and strongest justification for keeping Singapore’s doors open to the world’s best global tech talent. 

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Ms Koh Shiyan is an experienced operator and investor. She is currently a co-founder of and General Partner at Hustle Fund, a global pre-seed venture fund. Prior to Hustle Fund, she was VP of Business Operations & Corp Dev at NerdWallet (employee #10), growing annual revenue from $1 million to more than $150 million. Prior to NerdWallet, she was an investor at Institutional Venture Partners and Bridgewater Associates. 

Ms Karen Tay coaches technology start-ups on talent, culture and employer brand. Prior to this, she was Director at Singapore’s Smart Nation and Digital Government Group and Economic Development Board, where she built a global team in San Francisco, New York, London and Singapore focused on attracting the world’s best technology talent to Singapore and the Singapore Public Service. She is an experienced operator, strategist and communicator. 

Together, they hold degrees from Stanford, Harvard and Princeton, though they hope this matters less to their credibility than their experience. 

On building communities

I've been building communities all my life. In the beginning, it was accidental - I noticed that most groups were willing to do things if someone (anyone!), provided a small amount of direction, "Hey guys, let's go to the beach and do X, Y, Z,", vs let's all stand around discussing things we could do for 30 minutes, with everyone politely deferring to everyone else and no decision being made. 

After relocating from SF to Singapore in 2018, one of our first tasks after settling the mundane and never-ending tasks of the move was to build community. We had long been spoiled in SF since my wife had grown up in the Bay Area, we'd both gone to undergrad there, and we both worked in technology - we had community built-in. Landing in Singapore, we needed to start from scratch. Making friends later in life is a fun exercise because you know yourself better - we wanted to build a group that we felt invigorated by, where we can learn and grow together.

Communities often organically form around shared experiences, but when you're new to a place, how do you create a shared experience for strangers? What gives you that right to convene people?

Back to my old bag of tricks - start with a dinner party, add wine, and just offer a place and time to meet. And that's how we began, I invited 2 people I knew to dinner, told them my goal was to create a dinner of supportive women in tech, and asked them to bring 1 or 2 other folks they thought might be interesting. Over the last 24 months, the group has grown from that initial set of 6 into 30 women who meet monthly in each others' homes to discuss tech, life, policy and everything else. I wanted to share a few of our learnings so far, and am curious to learn more about how others think about community building!

Relationship strength is built on a number of axes: frequency, intensity and shared values. That's why so many people make friends at school, work or religious groups. These venues have built in frequency, and often include intense points of connection and shared values. When you're trying to create something from scratch, you have to create those conditions.

  • Frequency (and cadence and predictability) - It's hard for people to build trust with one another if they don't have enough consistent touch points. We started with a monthly dinner where the next dinner was scheduled at the end of each prior dinner - this was suboptimal (particularly in pre-COVID times) as folks weren't able to plan ahead as well. At the start of 2020, I set out the dates for the entire year so people could plan around the dinner if they wanted to attend.

  • Intensity & Commitment - If you can ratchet up the intensity of an interaction, you don't need as much time or frequency; but this is tricky in groups of strangers (or relative strangers, which is where most professional acquaintances begin). In a group setting, I think about how to increase the quality of the interactions each person can have with another person (1:1), but also with the group more broadly. In this scenario, I've found that structure is my friend. I set topics for each dinner and use that as a starting prompt to get conversation started. The topic itself is less important than just giving people a place to start and warm-up their conversational muscles. I've found it also helps newer members ease into conversations while they are still meeting people. The commitment is pretty accessible - you just have to host dinner in the rotation of folks; this has ramped up during the pandemic as we are limited to groups of 5, which has resulted in having multiple dinners on the same night, rather than one big dinner. Unintentionally, this has also increased intensity as smaller groups are more able to get deeper with each other faster. I notice folks signing up for different hosts to rotate the people they see each month. 

  • Values - it helps to be explicit about why a community exists, and what are the expected norms for those in the group. This is still a work in progress as I have not explicitly laid it out, instead choosing to shape it through member selection and modeling of desired behaviors. It’s not meant to be a “networking” group, as I don’t want folks to be transactional. I want folks to come with an open mind and a willingness to collaborate and be authentic. This shows up when folks ask for help in the WhatsApp group, and fellow members jump in to assist.  We celebrate members’ accomplishments, but have a tacit understanding that the group is not meant for self-promotion. 

Composition of members - I set out to get a good mix of founders, senior operators, investors and perhaps more specific to this region, policy makers. I optimize for people with interesting experiences and perspectives. Getting a good variety of folks is part of what makes the interactions fun. 

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Logistics: Reduce the friction - Relationships as the focus

  • Lower the bar - I have 2 kids and a dog. My house is not really up to Architectural Digest standards, which I think made people more comfortable about hosting once they saw that it was really just about providing a space where people can convene. (also, just keep pouring wine!)

  • Private - there is no publicity for the group; we don’t tweet or instagram dinners, all members join via word of mouth. My belief is that this helps participants feel safer in sharing authentically

  • Separate logistics coordination from conversation (Whatsapp + Google Doc) - we run the group with a combination of WhatsApp (conversation) and a Google Sheet (logistics - dinner dates, addresses)

How do we know if it's working? It's early, but here are some encouraging signs:

  • Folks who've met in the group are also meeting up outside of the monthly dinners. "This women’s group is pretty awesome. I was in many things in nyc but this is so much more social but also involved and consistent than all the things I did in nyc. The ladies connect and want to connect outside of the dinners also. I would have never thought of these mini-teach in sessions like today would have many participants given how busy people are with family and work."

  • Dinner members are protective of the group, and refer people thoughtfully

  • People who had met before are building deeper relationships as a consequence of the dinner "Btw I don't think I've said this before but wanted to tell you that I really admire your drive & effort in building up this salon community. The irony is, a number of these women I've met in passing before but never really got to know properly. A, B, C are good examples of ppl who have been in the ecosystem a long time & we never really connected till now”

What's next?

We are experimenting with virtual teach-ins, in addition to the dinners, where members share in depth on different topics where they have deep subject matter expertise. Our first one was on Asian Public Equities, led by a member who runs a long-short hedge fund; this was great exposure for a broad swathe of the group that is largely private market focused. Some future talks have been proposed on a wide range of topics: Data-driven policy making, Collecting Art, Talent acceleration, and Coaching. 

I am curious about how to spawn more independent groups using the initial membership as a seed - one member moved to Austin, and is meeting up with another who is there for family matters. Can we replicate the same trust and camaraderie for people who've never met?

My dream is for this group of women to be a strong and trusted professional group where folks help one another in the manner of a professional sorority - where the knowledge that someone is part of the community is enough verification that there are shared values. 




Race, power and what we can do about it

If you’re watching the news, and face it, who isn’t, it’s disheartening to watch what’s happening in the US right now.

Yesterday, we sent a note out to our portfolio founders:

Sitting here in Southeast Asia, which has it's own troubled history with race, colonialization and conflict, it's been so hard to watch what's been happening in the US.

Not only are we still dealing with the surge of cases of the coronavirus, which we know is affecting so many of your businesses, but in addition, you may have seen in the news a lot of racially charged incidents that also happened this week. This spans from a police officer murdering weaponless George Floyd to a woman threatening to call the police on a Black man who was birdwatching and rightfully trying to tell her to put a leash on her dog. These are not one-off cases, but just the latest in a series of incidents where Black Americans are the subjects of casual police brutality. For those of you who are not based in the United States, a lot of this may sound completely senseless. I, too, couldn't explain any of this to my kindergartener. It just doesn’t make any sense.

We’ve heard from our Black friends that they feel afraid -- it’s a fear that comes back every time things like this happen. The events of this week are reminders that you can be innocently minding your own business -- not even near a crime -- and can be a target for violence simply because of your skin color. If you are afraid, I want to give you a big social distancing hug. 

Race is ultimately a power relationship; racial categories are not about interesting cultural or physical differences, but about putting other people into groups in order to dominate, exploit and attack them.

In the United States race as a form of power has existed since the very beginning.

The US Constitution divided people into White, Black or Indian, which were meant to stand in for power categories: those eligible for citizenship, those subjected to brutal enslavement, and those targeted for genocide. In the first census, each resident counted as one person, each slave as three-fifths a person, and each "Indian" was not counted at all. But racialisation is often more insidious. It means that we see things that don’t exist, and fail to recognise things that do. The most powerful racial category is often invisible: Whiteness. The benefit of being in power is that Whites can imagine that they are the norm and that only other people have race. An early US census instructed people to leave the race section blank if they were White, and indicate only if someone were something else (‘B’ for Black, ‘M’ for Mulatto). Whiteness was literally unmarked.

As startup founders, we understand power and power structures as it pertains to incumbents and their grip on the markets we are attacking; and yet we try. We are optimists who believe we have the power to change things, otherwise we wouldn’t start companies

We want you to know that at Hustle Fund, we condemn violence, discrimination, racial profiling, etc. Whether it is now or down the road, if you ever feel like you are an outsider or that you are being discriminated against because of your race, gender, nationality, age, or anything else for that matter, I want everyone in this Hustle Fund family to know you can come to us. If we even just take the smaller startup community in the broader world, I know that the startup community, too, is fraught with problems. There is a lot of discrimination and bad behavior within the startup ecosystem, especially as it pertains to raising money from investors.

Part of the reason we decided to start a VC fund is so that we can start to right the world a little bit. It will take a long time. We are not the biggest VCs. And we are not the most powerful VCs. But we have a bit of a voice. Let’s use it for good. Let’s use it to effect the change we want to see in the world -- even if it starts small. We may all be different but you will always be Hustle Fund Family.

For folks who haven’t lived in the US, it can be hard to grasp the institutionalised racism that permeates society, and how that shows up in power structures. As an international student attending university in the US, American ideas of race were very disorienting. “You speak such good English”, “Well yes, Singapore is a former British colony, as is the United States…” As a naive 18 year old, I had bought into notions of living in a post-racial world, just to be rudely awakened by learning of redlining, systemic discrimination in incarceration rates, and even more subtly, in the rate of interview offers based purely on how someone’s name sounded.

It was an education in understanding systemic privileges and disadvantages, and once you see it, it’s hard to not see it everywhere.

What does it mean for us sitting outside the US? Race looks different here, but power does not. The foreign worker situation has forced us to confront our own attitudes as Singaporeans towards a group of people who were relatively powerless, at the mercy of employers, exploitative agents, even Singaporean’s own attitudes towards them. A lot of great conversation has transpired as we ask ourselves what kind of country we want to be. PM Lee has set the tone here, with his public commitment to ensure medical care and working with employers to ensure the workers continue to get paid, but our work is far from done here. We have to actively live up to the words in our pledge “regardless of race, language or religion, to build a democratic society, based on justice and equality, so as to achieve happiness, prosperity and progress for our nation” We’re taught to recite that everyday in school, but rarely to we take the time to reflect on what that actually means, and how do we as individuals commit to that standard.

Power dynamics show up in sexual harassment cases - why do people do it? Because they think they can get away with it! Harassment continues not because men do not know sexual harassment is wrong, but because they do not believe they will be caught or punished.

In my own industry, venture capital, power dynamics show up in how some investors believe they can treat founders or other investors they believe to be in relatively weaker positions than them. They renegotiate terms at the last minute, or push to deny early investors their pro-rata. The same dynamics are at play - they don’t believe they will be called out for it, or perhaps more cynically, even if they were called out, they don’t believe it would impact their ability to do future deals.

So what do we do about it? How do we stop ourselves from feeling helpless? In the words of Uncle Ben “ With great power, comes great responsibility” , or perhaps from Luke “To whomever much is given, of him will much be required; and to whom much was entrusted, of him more will be asked”

Let’s use our powers for good, folks =).

Why I decided to join Hustle Fund

After almost 6 years at NerdWallet, and having had the chance of a lifetime to build a business from scratch with my friends, I was looking for something that would engage me in a similar way. In Drive, Daniel Pink writes about Autonomy, Mastery and Purpose as the key elements of intrinsic motivation, and I realised the NerdWallet experience was special because it hit all there intrinsic motivation buttons:

  1. the feeling that we were solving a big problem, bit by bit (Mastery)

  2. we were helping real consumers (Purpose) , and

  3. we were charting on own path every day (Autonomy)

In joining Hustle Fund, I have the opportunity to build an asset management business with two great friends that I trust and respect; invest in a region that I’m extremely bullish on, and work with smart, motivated people every day who are trying to build big, sustainable businesses. Eric, Elizabeth and I believe that we are at the beginning of a multi-decade journey to build an investment firm that is firmly focused on enabling all entrepreneurs, regardless of resources or location, a shot at receiving funding and coaching. We are obviously just at the beginning of this journey, but it is feels amazing to have vision alignment with partners.

I believe in the potential of Southeast Asia - the underlying macro factors that make it a great market for people to start and grow businesses in. It’s a region with a young population, growing middle class, and annual GDP growth in excess of 5%. I’ve had the opportunity to meet investors and entrepreneurs throughout the region, and can feel the palpable excitement and eagerness to try new business models and bring new solutions to customers. I am thrilled to have the opportunity to be part of building the ecosystem that can nurture cool new businesses!

Celebrating the close of Fund 1 and the opportunity to work together! Demonstrating remote life =)

Celebrating the close of Fund 1 and the opportunity to work together! Demonstrating remote life =)

What I've been doing since leaving NerdWallet

After nearly 6 years building NerdWallet, I left at the end of March to move back to my home country, Singapore. It's been nearly 18 years since I first arrived in the US to start university at Stanford. I never imagined I would be here so long, and now it's time to begin navigating my return. 

My motivation: I have an almost-two year old daughter - I want her to experience growing up in a safe place, surrounded by family in a geography that is poised to experience a ton of secular growth. I want her to know what real char kway teow tastes like =). I don't want to worry that she's going to be shot in school by some crazy person. =(

People's reactions: 

  • My American friends: "What a great adventure! Is this forever? Can we come too?"
  • My Singaporean friends: "Huh? Why you come home? California is so nice" 
  • Singaporean taxi drivers: "Why? In America, don't have to work can collect welfare, what" He refused to believe me when I said that being poor in America is actually pretty terrible
  • Singaporean civil servants: "Good, nice to have Singaporeans come home" 

My process: I've been spending the last 5 months traveling in the region, Singapore, Indonesia, Vietnam, Myanmar, meeting entrepreneurs and investors, trying to build a mental model of what I think is exciting and fun to do, and where I can be of service. I was basically choosing between a) joining a company, b) starting a business, and c) raising a fund. After over 100+ conversations, I finally decided to join two of my oldest friends, Elizabeth Yin and Eric Bahn at their new pre-seed fund, Hustle Fund. More on that decision in my next blog post! 

Upcoming blog topics:

  • Why I joined Hustle Fund
  • Why operators should do angel investing
  • Why women should take more risk in their portfolios
  • Communication - why you have to say everything more than once, in multiple channels

Communities and the Cul-de-sac

"Wouldn't it be great if we could all be neighbor with our best friends? We could come home from work, trade stories over a glass of wine while watching our kids play together?"

This is the vision I tried to sell my college friends after we graduated, because once we scattered to the far-flung corners of the world, or let's face it, once some people moved to the East Bay, it became increasingly difficult to get together on a consistent basis. With every additional child, the logistical coordination burden becomes even more overhead. Which means you see each other a few times a year even though you may leave geographically not that far from one another. 

Living in close proximity would:

  • Reduce coordination overhead
  • Create happy collisions
  • Lower the bar on performance

With Amanhapa* we have the privilege of living with two wonderful friends with whom we share a garden, a garage, a laundry room but also so much more! We have impromptu cocktail hours, dinner parties and long walks with dogs. We get the wonderful intersection of shared friends being able to run into all four of us, our house as a natural meeting point for others coming into town and the real feel of an intentional community being built. 

When we first embarked on this project, folks were fairly skeptical; but I think over the years we've won people over with shared meals in the garden, lively parties and of course generous pours of wine. 

 

*See hapa residents for full story.